what is love?? lol

love is..
a unifying response between two people,something that is more than a simple thought or emotion,a mutual attraction, an unselfish mind-set, a will to do what is best for the person you care about,the ability to look past imperfections and care with selfless patience,and to share ultimate happiness as a common goal.but what's so great about love anyway?we have our entire lives (somewhere around 76.4 years) to find someone, and to love them unconditionally. but when is the right time to start looking for that person? in my opinion, people take love too seriously. they start looking too early, rush into love too quickly. i say we ought to spend our time wisely, slow down, and take things one step at a time. take some time, while we're young, to enjoy life. we have so many things to experience before we grow up, find jobs, and get married. if love is a true testament to self-actualization, then what is youth? if we miss out on youth we miss out on every experience that comes with the ignorance of adolescence: sneaking into R-rated movies, thoughtless pranks, reckless underage drinking, making out in the backseat, the first time in an unknown bed. there are just too many things too miss out on.while love is forever and a fling is for the moment, it is a moment that is essential to living out our lives.